"Problems With Ejaculation"

Ejaculation is an innate apex of a sexual act experienced by men. It is a medium of pleasure that all men look forward to and is the main objective of getting married as it is the vital demand of human instinct. There are various ways to achieve ejaculation that are learnt instinctively, and out of curiosity.

Nevertheless, everything is not as good as it seems. Sexual dysfunctions are getting very common nowadays. Basically, the increasing number of psychosocial, psychological, and physical dysfunctions are due to the metropolitan outspread and increasing pollution of planet earth.

Delayed ejaculation

Regardless of how we got to this point, let’s talk about a specific sexual dysfunction, commonly known as delayed ejaculation. The term delayed ejaculation refers to the inability to ejaculate and it is quite an untoward situation where a man is unable to ejaculate.

Psychological problems

One of the common forms of ejaculation is where a man is unable to ejaculate in the company of his partner. If a man is unable to ejaculate in the presence of his partner, but can ejaculate normally while alone after some sort of sexual stimulation, then the reason behind such a dysfunction is wholly solely psychological.

Men suffering from such a dysfunction usually have orthodox religious backgrounds and are generally taught that sex is a sin. One of the other reasons is that that a man is simply not attracted to his partner.

Sometimes a trauma or a traumatic situation can lead to this dysfunction as well. For example, if a man finds out that his partner is cheating on him and is having an affair with someone else or if he is being caught by his partner while having sex or masturbating, then these traumatizing situations can make him too distressed to attain ejaculation.

Sometimes, it does so happen that men are unable to ejaculate while masturbating, whereas they are leading a normal sex life. This sort of dysfunction is also due to some of the reasons that are explained above in detail.

Masturbation as a sin

Most of the religions consider masturbation as a big sin and the followers of such religions are taught to refrain from developing sinful habits like these.

So, in such a case, where your mind is distracted by religious teachings, it can be difficult for you to have an intimate feeling for your partner. You cannot force or wear a feeling on yourself. So, if you are suffering from such a problem, seek professional help immediately. Go to your physician to get a referral to a therapist that can help both you and your partner.

Basically, the therapist will explain about all the sexual stimulation and responses and will help you to understand your sexual needs. The therapist might recommend a treatment if necessary and can psychologically talk you out of such a situation.

Just relax

Ideally, you can stimulate yourself and your partner by just relaxing. Relaxation is the key to intimacy. Now, in order to be intimate, the best thing for you to do is to have a romantic candle light dinner, have some wine, and if both of you think that porn can stimulate you in a better manner, then go for it. Avoid unnecessary conversations that can lead to an argument. Just relax and try to have some fun by hugging and kissing each other and try not to hustle yourself into having sex. Remember, take your time and just relax.

It is very important for you to know that a muscle, known as pubococcygeus muscle should be under your control, as relaxing and tensing of this muscle is sometimes very helpful. In order to train your PC muscle, you should consider a Penis Health exercise program that has a series of healthy exercises.

"Types of Condoms and What Women Like About Them"

It seems as if every time you turn around there is a new kind of condom on the market. There is a rainbow of color, a plethora of sizes and more flavors than you can count out there. The days of the one size fits all condom are long gone, never to return.

Textured condoms

Textures are one of the biggest selling points when it comes to these new fangled condoms. There are ribbed condoms for a more pleasurable experience for women as well as thinner (yet still durable) ones for men.

There are even studded condoms that are textured on the inside and the outside, this is great news for both men and women!

The sheer number of condom varieties is near impossible to count but it is important to note that while the brands may differ there are still basically eight different categories of condoms.

What are condoms made from?

The vast majority of condoms are made with either polyurethane or latex.

The size of the condoms you purchase is also an important consideration. And this category is not just about length but width as well, so keep that in mind when you are shopping for condoms.

Many men will find that they need to shop at specialty shops for condoms that fit them well because most drugstores sell only standard sizes. There is nothing worse than a condom that doesn’t fit well.

Lubrication is another important factor to consider. If you have any specific allergies then you will want to read the labels carefully since not all of them are made with the same ingredients.

A good condom

Now what are the qualities of a good condom, for material, latex is probably the best; avoid the naturally made ones such as lamb membrane. Some individuals claim that STD’s can go through latex but this is untrue.

When picking a lubricant the water-based ones are the best like those that are already pre-lubricated with spermicidal gel or foam. Petroleum, baby oil’s or cream should not be used as a lubricant as they can tend to weaken the condom, even the latex ones.

What do women want?

Specifically, what condom would a woman want? French ticklers (condoms with long appendages) or those with ridges can increase pleasure during intercourse. For the same purpose a woman may insist on the ultra thin type of condom.

Lastly, and maybe the most interesting fact is that women generally do not care about all the fancy ridges, ribs or the lubricant.

The problem found is that condoms are generally designed by men, for men. A study has shown that if women were to design a condom they would just make it padded, as although the length may not be critical, according to her, the width does.

"Health Benefits of the Male Orgasm"

We all understand the power of sex. It’s more than just a reproductive function of human beings, its something we derive pleasure from. It’s a pleasure which most people find incomparable to any other feeling on earth-even love.

We are influenced constantly by sex in our daily lives, the media knows this and it’s evident by the sexual undertones in everything marketed to us from perfumes to cell phones.

The orgasm

Sex wouldn’t be sex if not for the orgasm. The ultimate goal of every form of sexual activity is to arrive at this one explosive moment that is the peak of all sexual pleasure.

The pleasure of a particular sex session is easily quantified by the nature of the orgasm derived from it.

With function of the orgasm seemingly related to sexual pleasure alone, few people know of the health benefits that are associated with the orgasms we experience during sex. Recent health studies have showed a strong link with orgasms and the general health and well being of the male body.

The health benefits

One individual , Dr Alfred Kinsey started out with research in the 1950’s to try and understand what other functions and benefits humans could derive from sex other than reproduction and pleasure. One outcome of Dr Kinsey’s study was the discovery that people who engaged in more sex and had frequent orgasm were less prone to stress and violent tendencies.

Later studies revealed other amazing discoveries. These discoveries included the fact that people who engaged in frequent sexual activity and had orgasms had a lower mortality rate when compared with their less sexually active counterparts. (Duke University, 1970s and Caerphilly, 1997). For women an active sex life also bears some correlation with a lower risk of heart disease (Psychosomatic Medicine, 1976).

Other individuals and researchers such as Dudley Chapman a Gyaenacologist have since made other discoveries showing that an active sex life helps the body combat infections and disease better.

Reducing cancer

In men, frequent ejaculation induced by orgasms has been found to reduce the liability of the male body to develop prostrate cancer. This discovery was as a result of work carried out by researchers in Melbourne, Australia. Other benefits such as a reduction in the risk of pain during urination on the attainment of old age have also been noted among researchers in other fields.

Clearly these results from researchers show that human beings were meant to have sex, enjoy it and stay healthy from it. Lack of a healthy sex life and corresponding healthy orgasms affects the body in a negative way, in order to counter these problems an active sexual life and healthy orgasms are needed.

"Sensual Massage"

It is very important for your lover to know that you are crazy about her and love her with all your heart and soul.

Make her feel special

To make her feel special, take her out to somewhere romantic or surprise her by arranging a candle light dinner at home. After dinner, just tell her how beautiful she is and tell her that you want to give her a massage.

Don’t fool her by saying her that you want to massage her and just rush her into sexual activities. Try to take one step at a time.

Relax and have fun

At this point, forget about all your worries and just concentrate on having a great time and making her feel the ecstasy of your love.

A romantic song can make your work a lot easier, so one or two CDs of cool romantic songs may come in handy.

Now, the other things that you require are a few scented candles, scented or unscented massage oil, a few clean towels, and a clean sheet underneath to prevent everything else from getting oil stains.

The perfect massage

Start massaging her shoulders in a gentle manner in a clockwise motion in order to make her feel relaxed.

While massaging her shoulders give her a kiss or two at the back of her neck and tease her by stimulating some of her erogenous areas, but don’t touch the breasts or the vagina yet. Just slowly rub your body against hers and don’t leave out any part of the body.

When you are at the final of the massage and you are massaging the most erogenous zones, just keep your pace and don’t start massaging her hastily. While massaging, make sure that she is enjoying it throughout and if at any point you observe or feel that she is becoming uncomfortable, just pamper her a bit and give her a while to breathe.

Before starting the massage of the most sensitive parts, ask her if she wants you to massage these areas or not. If she wants you to go on, then start massaging her outer lips gently and then go on massaging the clitoris and the G-spot. If she is comfortable with the use of sex toys and you are comfortable with using them too, then you can massage her with a vibrator as well.

"Erotic Massage"

Erotic massage is the best way to get a sturdy orgasm and you will feel all refreshed and calm. A sexual state for a greater extent is attained and maintained with the help of erotic massages. Erotic massages are very beneficial for men suffering from premature ejaculation, as these massages can turn them on without ejaculation.

Getting in the mood

Some people massage erotically to enhance the mood. If you have romantic and stimulating CDs, they will help you a lot as well with the combination of a scented oil massage to relax the nerves of your lover.

As you know, you should not rush to massage the genitals. Massage her body all over, knead her stomach gently, massage her pelvic muscles to make her feel relaxed and by you touching her sensually will turn her on and this turned on state will be maintained for quite a while.

Bite her ear gently and tell her that you love her body and she is the hottest woman you have ever seen.

Now, when she is totally into you, go ahead and massage the most tender spots of her body. Go slowly, let her feel your love, as the more gentle you are, the more pleasure you will give and receive.

"Erogenous Zones: Stimulation Techniques"

Here you will be learning different techniques of stimulating the female erogenous zones.

If you want to become a successful lover you should know how to please a woman and make her feel satisfied. By reading further, you will be able to learn as to what works and why, and how can you create and discover new techniques if need be.

Men and women are different

Most of the people, either men or women think that they and their partner have same sexual interests.

Men almost have the same interest in getting touched the same way over and over again. But women are a bit different as they are not ready to be touched all the time and basically like to be turned on properly before moving onto the main action.

So, what you need to do is to get your partner in a playful mood and turn her on by doing all the techniques we taught you before.

After having a romantic dinner, just check out if your lady wants to go into the foreplay mode or not. Mostly men thinks that it is boring and rush into having sex, but it is only in your best interest to enjoy the foreplay mode as women love it. Foreplay is basically when you are exploring and building up the passion for having a great time with your partner.

Learn how to judge different situations

Judging different situations is what we can’t teach you and you have to learn to self-judge some situations. Let me give you an example: As you know almost all women like to be kissed and loved, but you have to show her, your true passion and love.

Do not focus mainly on the body of women, respect them, listen to them, try to understand them, talk to them, and let them know that you love them individually not just their bodies.

Don’t create a feeling of awkwardness, for example if you are kissing her and she is not responding, stop right at that moment and ask her as to how she is feeling, show her that you really care about her.

If at sometime she tells you to stop kissing or stop doing whatever you are doing at that moment to her, go ahead and stop right at that moment and try to talk to her, try to share her problems and make her feel good.

Body signs

Reading the body signs is one of the skill that you should master. She will guide you to treat her the way she wants you to in her own way, try to read her body language and let her guide you to give her the best experience ever.

So, to sum it up, read as much as you can, absorb all the information and try to experiment it. Don’t push her to do anything, but be a bit firm, don’t let her feel that you are controlling her, but be in control, listen to her, be gentle, and let her know and feel that you are not going to harm her in anyway and you are enjoying as much being with her as she is being with you.

"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them"

If you want to be a perfect lover, you have to be curious and you should strive to learn to be the best in giving pleasure to your lady. Along with these skills you should be keen enough to explore and attain more knowledge.

As we all know that internet has given us the access to zillions of porn sites, but sadly most men are not able to discover every nook and corner of a vagina yet. All they see is some pink flesh covered in hair. It is almost impossible for some men to find the clitoris and are not learned enough when it comes to the erogenous areas of a female body.

Feeling shy?

It is quite surprising to know that some men are quite shy and feel lucky if they are able to get in bed with some woman and just don’t explore the body of their partner to the fullest and just can’t experiment anything.

Some men are not shy, but are not into experimenting or exploring and they have a valid reason. And the reason is that that what if their partner feels weird about them and can tell them “back off you wacko. So, men with a sense of control can handle situations like this a lot more easier than a shy person.

Looking after yourself

A good look matters. Even today some men think that looking good does not matter at all. Well, it’s their point of view and we respect it even though it is wrong to some extent.

You do not have to be stunningly beautiful, but you can look good by wearing clean clothes and taking care of your hygiene.

Turn your partner on through masturbation

Masturbation is the key to turn on your lady. If you and your partner are in a mood to have a best night time ever, you should start conversing about masturbation.

If your partner is a shy person and does not share her intimate secrets with you, try to talk her out of it and tell her to masturbate.

She might be stimulating her clitoris in order to masturbate and you will be able to have a good look as to what she is doing and how she is doing it.

Be gentle while conversing and don’t spill all your emotions on her and give her some space. If masturbation does not interest her or she is shy to share this little detail with you, don’t push her to do so.

What are the main erogenous zones?

The main erogenous areas are the clitoris and the perineum, but these areas cannot be easily accessed.

The clitoris is one of the most sensitive spots and is responsible for orgasms and for your information the only job that clitoris does is of giving pleasure. Orgasms that are more common in women are clitoris orgasm.

To pull it off, you should ask your partner to show you the intimate parts of her body and if you are lucky she might consider your request.

Try to explore your partner

If you are the one in control and your lady allows you to explore around, then you should exactly know the locations of the erogenous areas.

For example: Clitoris is sited above the intersection of the two inner lips, biologically known as labia minora.

You have to use your fingers delicately to separate out these lips and make sure that your nails are properly clipped. Now, the hood, commonly known as the rosebud will be visible.

Basically, the clitoris is covered partially or fully by a hood and this differs from one woman to another. You have to be very gentle when using your fingers or lips on the clitoris. If the sensation is overwhelming for your partner, then give her a while to recuperate.

The second most sensitive erogenous zone is the perineum and you must learn to stimulate it on your own. It is sited between the lower intersection of the labia minora and the anus.

It is a very sensitive area and can be stimulated in various ways to give pleasure. Even men like their perineum to be pressed while ejaculating. The perineum basically enhances the pleasure and can make your partner beg for more.

"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them

"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them

"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them

"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them

"Top Things Women Hate About Men"

The relationship between men and women has always been a love-hate type. This article will describe what a woman finds most annoying in her partner. Though this is a much debated topic, we know for sure that a woman never likes a man who is weak or shows too much of interest in her initially. Similarly there are many points that psychologists have tried to analyze. It would be very easy to put it down in a few simple points, but perhaps it is best to debate this topic by asking questions. How would you feel if you see your man with another woman enjoying a cup of coffee at the coffee shop around the street corner? Chances are, you would feel a sense of jealousy, even if the woman is just an office colleague who just wanted to feel a little relaxed. This is just an example and hundreds more can be cited. Any relationship can survive just on one sentence Trust me and I will never let you down. If you really mean it, this can be the foundation of any statement.

Many Psychoanalysts often point out that women often contradict themselves while expressing what they desire and do not desire in men. Though women publicly admit that they like men who are strong, secretly they like a man on whom she can wield certain amount of power. Well for all the men reading this article, the Billy Joel song She is always a woman for me is how we would love to define her. No matter what, men will always enjoy the company of women. Let me now bring out certain points which women definitely find annoying in a man. Imagine your boyfriend calling you up every 15 minutes, when you are in the middle of a busy road. Regardless of how much you love your partner, this can become very irritating, as you would feel you are free to be on your own, due to the constant phone calls.

Now imagine you are on a first date and he starts talking about the amount of money that he has made in the stock markets or the new Ferrari that he has bought. I am sure more often than not a woman would not like to hear about these things on the first date. While do talk about what they do for a living on first dates, it is usually considered annoying and ruse for someone to brag about their earnings.

It is also likely (majority of the times) that a woman would not like a person who would show insensitivity towards her feelings. This is a mistake that many men make and women do not like this attitude from them. There are many other factors that women generally do not like in men such as arrogance, lies, submissive behavior, etc. Never ever show a woman that you have a weak character. This is one of the traits that women dislike in a man. It is a mistake that many men make by making a woman feel that he is ready to fall at her feet. Contrary to a man's thinking that a woman would appreciate it, women get annoyed with men who are too submissive and ready to do anything for her. This does not mean that a woman does not want a sensitive man who is open about his feelings, but it does mean that a woman still wants a man to be his own person, think for himself and claim what he wants from a relationship.

A woman's relationship with a man is very delicate and she looks for a strong shoulder to rest her head. A woman always likes a man who has a big heart and ready to share and care. A self-centered man is rarely loved by women and more often than not will crave for female company. You are setting yourself up for failure, if you show undue interest in other women when you are with a woman. This is a behavior that women dislike and will definitely put her off. Manipulative attitude is something that women dislike in a man. Hence, try to be as open in your behavior as possible and at the same time do not fall prey if she displays manipulative behavior. Keeping these points in mind, you can win over a woman. Remember that love blossoms slowly and you need to give your woman time and space if you really want to win her over. We have tried to explore few points that make a woman annoyed with a man. There may be many more and hence it is always advisable that you always be yourself when you are on your initial dates.