"Top Things Women Hate About Men"

The relationship between men and women has always been a love-hate type. This article will describe what a woman finds most annoying in her partner. Though this is a much debated topic, we know for sure that a woman never likes a man who is weak or shows too much of interest in her initially. Similarly there are many points that psychologists have tried to analyze. It would be very easy to put it down in a few simple points, but perhaps it is best to debate this topic by asking questions. How would you feel if you see your man with another woman enjoying a cup of coffee at the coffee shop around the street corner? Chances are, you would feel a sense of jealousy, even if the woman is just an office colleague who just wanted to feel a little relaxed. This is just an example and hundreds more can be cited. Any relationship can survive just on one sentence Trust me and I will never let you down. If you really mean it, this can be the foundation of any statement.

Many Psychoanalysts often point out that women often contradict themselves while expressing what they desire and do not desire in men. Though women publicly admit that they like men who are strong, secretly they like a man on whom she can wield certain amount of power. Well for all the men reading this article, the Billy Joel song She is always a woman for me is how we would love to define her. No matter what, men will always enjoy the company of women. Let me now bring out certain points which women definitely find annoying in a man. Imagine your boyfriend calling you up every 15 minutes, when you are in the middle of a busy road. Regardless of how much you love your partner, this can become very irritating, as you would feel you are free to be on your own, due to the constant phone calls.

Now imagine you are on a first date and he starts talking about the amount of money that he has made in the stock markets or the new Ferrari that he has bought. I am sure more often than not a woman would not like to hear about these things on the first date. While do talk about what they do for a living on first dates, it is usually considered annoying and ruse for someone to brag about their earnings.

It is also likely (majority of the times) that a woman would not like a person who would show insensitivity towards her feelings. This is a mistake that many men make and women do not like this attitude from them. There are many other factors that women generally do not like in men such as arrogance, lies, submissive behavior, etc. Never ever show a woman that you have a weak character. This is one of the traits that women dislike in a man. It is a mistake that many men make by making a woman feel that he is ready to fall at her feet. Contrary to a man's thinking that a woman would appreciate it, women get annoyed with men who are too submissive and ready to do anything for her. This does not mean that a woman does not want a sensitive man who is open about his feelings, but it does mean that a woman still wants a man to be his own person, think for himself and claim what he wants from a relationship.

A woman's relationship with a man is very delicate and she looks for a strong shoulder to rest her head. A woman always likes a man who has a big heart and ready to share and care. A self-centered man is rarely loved by women and more often than not will crave for female company. You are setting yourself up for failure, if you show undue interest in other women when you are with a woman. This is a behavior that women dislike and will definitely put her off. Manipulative attitude is something that women dislike in a man. Hence, try to be as open in your behavior as possible and at the same time do not fall prey if she displays manipulative behavior. Keeping these points in mind, you can win over a woman. Remember that love blossoms slowly and you need to give your woman time and space if you really want to win her over. We have tried to explore few points that make a woman annoyed with a man. There may be many more and hence it is always advisable that you always be yourself when you are on your initial dates.

"Stimulate The Breasts"

But you have to be aware of the fact that each and every girl is different in all respects. You cannot stimulate or seduce every girl the same way. There are some girls who want their man to fondle their breasts, but they don’t like it when it comes to stimulating their tits. So, try to be creative and think or even ask her directly if she would like you to do something or not.

Well, I don’t have to tell you that tits are of various shapes and sizes and so are boobs.

If you have small breasts and you are thinking that you cannot attract any man, then you are totally wrong, as some men love girls with small breasts and some men like huge breasts, so you are going to get all the male attention.

Scientists have done studies and they have found that girls with big tits have more fun while having sex, but their tits are not that much sensitive to touch.

Girls with small sized tits enjoy the sensation that can make them go crazy as their perky little tits are very much sensitive to touch.

So, it is pretty evident that when you will nibble a small tit, you are turning your girl really horny, but a girl with bigger tits won’t get turned on to that extent if you will stimulate her tits.

Breasts And Pleasure

The brown place on the boobs is called the areola and it is very sensitive to touch and the bigger the brown nipple surface area, the more pleasure you can give to your girl.

The areola or the brown area has a lot of nerve endings and sometimes the sensations on stimulation can be overwhelming, and she can reach her climax just by stimulating her nipple area.

Some girls do have inverted nipples, but don’t worry girls, you can get as much fun as any other ordinary girl with big or small tits.

Be Firm, But Not Too Rough

Now, a little piece of advice for men who love to give special attention to the boobs, be firm in your approach, when you are sucking and fondling, but be gentle.

Don’t be too aggressive to give a bruise to your girl, as she won’t like it and it can also cause some serious health problems to her.

While biting on the nipples try to avoid to tear or break-in the skin and don’t even think of using the nipple clippers.

While squeezing the boobs, make sure that you are not squeezing them like a ball, think that you are squeezing a balloon filled with water, you know what I mean right. Treat her like she is special to you and tell her that you cannot think of hurting her in anyway and she will be all over you and will allow you to be all over her.

Use Your Tongue

Some naughty experts say that if a woman has big boobs, the best way to tease and please her is to make her lay on her back and start tantalizing the area outside the breasts below the armpits.

Feel free to use your tongue and fingertips in a gentle flicking rhythm and nibble a bit as you are working on her boobs. Well, you are one lucky girl if your boy is paying too much attention to you and is doing everything to please you.

Be Creative

You cannot use the same technique every time. You have to be creative in inventing places to please your woman and make her moan for more.

If you are in a relationship with a woman who has an infant child and she is breastfeeding her, then be as gentle as possible, as her baby has given her enough sucking for the day. So, just drop the idea of sucking her boobs for a while and if she wants you to fondle her breasts, then concentrate on the underneath part.

"JUST A BIT OF FUN"

Great Sex: Finding Your G-Spot

The debate over the g-spot seems to never end. Does it exist, is it important, should it be talked about, does it have any usefulness? Definitive answers are rare, so while the experts debate, why not do your own research, and get to the heart (or would it be gheart) of the matter. Many women can stimulate their g-spot using their fingers. Some people will find it easier using a toy that is curved, either a dildo or a vibrator.

Difficulty: N/A

Time Required: You might find your g-spot immediately, or it could take several attempts. Don't pressure yourself.


1. Avoid performance pressure about the "magic spot".

People can become fixated on achieving a sexual goal (multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasm, g-spot orgasms) One thing I can promise is that this is the best way to NOT enjoy any sort of sexual encounter. Remember that sexual exploration is mostly about the journey, not the destination (although the destination is better than most, I’ll agree). Try not to make this another notch in your “sexually self-actualized” belt.

2. Turn yourself on.

Any homework that starts with this is bound to be somewhat fruitful. The spongy area around the g-spot gets engorged with blood when you’re sexually aroused, so it is much easier to find and feel when you’re turned on.

3. Get comfortable and find the g-spot area.

Lie on your back, squat, or lie on your stomach. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (use lube if you’re feeling a little dry), crooking it forward in a “come hither” motion. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina.

4. Notice how the g-spot feels.

The texture of the g-spot area will likely be noticeably different from the typically smooth walls of the vagina. When you’re aroused it can expand, so feel it at different times during your arousal to get familiar with its contours and sensitivity. The g-spot responds to pressure, so press down and pull forward using that "come hither" motion with your fingers.

5. Explore the g-spot with toys.

For some it can be awkward to stimulate the g-spot by hand. A g-spot vibrator or dildo can be a great helper in this. Apply a little lube to your toy, and insert it with the tip (if it’s curved) pointing up toward the top wall of your vagina. Work it in slowly, far enough (a couple of inches) so the tip is pressing against your g-spot.

6. Experiment with pressure and motion.

Some women will find pressure against the g-spot pleasurable, some women like the feeling vibration when a toy is pressing against the g-spot. Experiment and see if either feels good for you. For most women, the g-spot responds to firm pressure. In the beginning, use your toy as if you were trying to scratch an itch—don’t pull the toy all the way out, but use short strokes, applying firm pressure, against the g-spot.

7. Vary the movements.

A circular or back-and-forth motion may be necessary to get you started, but you might soon graduate to a more vigorous thrusting. If you’ve got a vibrator, try playing with the vibrations both on and off to see which you like better.

8. Add clitoral stimulation to g-spot play.

You’ll know you’re hitting the spot as you feel tingly sensations, the urge to pee, and an overall elevation in your arousal. When you feel the urge to come, stimulate your clitoris using your favorite method. Keep stroking your g-spot.

9. Let go.

With continued stimulation, you’ll eventually feel a sensation much like having to pee. This can be quite disconcerting at first, and has probably led plenty of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. You may or may not ejaculate, but ejaculation is perfectly normal (and it's not urine).

10. If you don’t at first orgasm, try try again.

It can take several practice sessions before you notice any build up. Try varying your position, using a different toy, experimenting with breathing and kegel exercises (to strengthen your PC muscle), or having a partner help you. Because the g-spot is most responsive when aroused, you may also want to try stimulating it after you’ve had an orgasm.

11. Remember the ear lobe.

Experimenting with the g-spot can be fun, and you never know what you’ll learn in the process. But try not to get hung up on this being a mind-blowing experience. If you’re playing around and it’s not doing anything for you, try something else, and know that there is nothing wrong with you, and what turns us all on is incredibly individual and unique.

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