"Erogenous Zones: How to Find Them"

If you want to be a perfect lover, you have to be curious and you should strive to learn to be the best in giving pleasure to your lady. Along with these skills you should be keen enough to explore and attain more knowledge.

As we all know that internet has given us the access to zillions of porn sites, but sadly most men are not able to discover every nook and corner of a vagina yet. All they see is some pink flesh covered in hair. It is almost impossible for some men to find the clitoris and are not learned enough when it comes to the erogenous areas of a female body.

Feeling shy?

It is quite surprising to know that some men are quite shy and feel lucky if they are able to get in bed with some woman and just don’t explore the body of their partner to the fullest and just can’t experiment anything.

Some men are not shy, but are not into experimenting or exploring and they have a valid reason. And the reason is that that what if their partner feels weird about them and can tell them “back off you wacko. So, men with a sense of control can handle situations like this a lot more easier than a shy person.

Looking after yourself

A good look matters. Even today some men think that looking good does not matter at all. Well, it’s their point of view and we respect it even though it is wrong to some extent.

You do not have to be stunningly beautiful, but you can look good by wearing clean clothes and taking care of your hygiene.

Turn your partner on through masturbation

Masturbation is the key to turn on your lady. If you and your partner are in a mood to have a best night time ever, you should start conversing about masturbation.

If your partner is a shy person and does not share her intimate secrets with you, try to talk her out of it and tell her to masturbate.

She might be stimulating her clitoris in order to masturbate and you will be able to have a good look as to what she is doing and how she is doing it.

Be gentle while conversing and don’t spill all your emotions on her and give her some space. If masturbation does not interest her or she is shy to share this little detail with you, don’t push her to do so.

What are the main erogenous zones?

The main erogenous areas are the clitoris and the perineum, but these areas cannot be easily accessed.

The clitoris is one of the most sensitive spots and is responsible for orgasms and for your information the only job that clitoris does is of giving pleasure. Orgasms that are more common in women are clitoris orgasm.

To pull it off, you should ask your partner to show you the intimate parts of her body and if you are lucky she might consider your request.

Try to explore your partner

If you are the one in control and your lady allows you to explore around, then you should exactly know the locations of the erogenous areas.

For example: Clitoris is sited above the intersection of the two inner lips, biologically known as labia minora.

You have to use your fingers delicately to separate out these lips and make sure that your nails are properly clipped. Now, the hood, commonly known as the rosebud will be visible.

Basically, the clitoris is covered partially or fully by a hood and this differs from one woman to another. You have to be very gentle when using your fingers or lips on the clitoris. If the sensation is overwhelming for your partner, then give her a while to recuperate.

The second most sensitive erogenous zone is the perineum and you must learn to stimulate it on your own. It is sited between the lower intersection of the labia minora and the anus.

It is a very sensitive area and can be stimulated in various ways to give pleasure. Even men like their perineum to be pressed while ejaculating. The perineum basically enhances the pleasure and can make your partner beg for more.